Lots of kids lack necessary social skills. Sometimes they are just too shy, sometimes they want to play with other kids but they don't know how to approach them, and sometimes they don't understand the behavior codes and social structures.
Parents often notice that their kids struggle in the social arena. This is one of the most upsetting thing for parents, who obviously want their children to have friends and be socially succesful. The good news is that a lot can be done to change this situation.
Social skills are like any other skill, they vary from one person to another. Some people have more of it, they are the "naturals", the ones that "were born with it" that will probably become excellent networkers as adults.
For those who weren't as blessed, there are teaching and practicing techniques that can improve social skills.
A lot of knowledge in that area was accumulated during research of children with all kinds of special needs.
One of the recommendations that professionals who work with children with special needs, is to write a social story that simulates a realistic situation that is relevant for each child. The story should be read to/with the child every time before that situation occures.
A good example is a play date. The story should describe the child who hosts the play date, the child comes over, things that they are going to do together and potential solutions for problematic situations.
After reading the story, the event happens under the supervision of an adult (a parent or a professional) that teaches whatever needs to be taught, in real time.
A lot of repetitions and practice is needed, but in the end results are seen.
My message to you is:
If you think that your child is facing some social challenges, don't give up!
There is so much that can be done in order to improve the situation.
If you decide to use the story method I mentioned above, using Batalugu is a great way to write and illustrate a personal story that exactly fits your child's specific needs. You can either use it online or order a professional looking hard copy of the book.
So, tell a tale (and use it to improve your life),
Dorit Rosen
Founder
http://batalugu.com
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